Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Until When We believe in Love?

Somehow, we believe in love. We have thrown ourselves into it so often. Love is endless. We don’t know the exact date, time or day until when we believe in love. There’s no prediction on it. We only know that when we fall in love, we always believe the magical connection of it. When we fall in love, it don’t matter the time or until when, as long as the love exist. If you’re happy, just keep on loving.  Sometimes it never lasted and our heart would break or close, but we never stopped opening it again. Again and again, we give love too often and too intensely. How many times are we fooled with golden words coming from their mouth? We've been suffered some harassment, we experienced many kinds of assaults on the body, on the mind, on the heart.


Saturday, January 14, 2017

Is Leadership Credible enough to Earn Respect?

At some point of our life, we must decide whether we want to impress people or influence people. We can impress people from a distance but we must get close to influence them and when we do that, they will be able to see our flaws, which are okay. The most essential quality for leadership is not perfection, but credibility. People must be able to trust you or they won’t follow you.

Friday, January 13, 2017

What you should do of the Pain from Sorrow or Depression?

No warning and no preparation of an awful reality in a normal careful way of our life. Finding why it happened might be too much; it might push you over the edge. Your life's been shattered! Probably you will be traumatized for life and you would never be the same. Maybe some part of you had tried to cling to the memories of that shattered bond of your past, the pain that causes sorrow or depression. Until now, there was so much that you had never comprehended about. You cannot have a real closure until you come to grips the reality.


It’s hard to remove all the pain we’ve felt from different situations like sorrow or depression especially if it’s about love life and/or someone hurt you physically that causes so much pain. Others might advise us to move on and forget the past but not that easy to do. Once we, humans suffer so much pain, we think that we are useless or worthless. We feel that it’s no used to be alive. We want to end our life. Are these the right thing to do when you suffer so much pain?

Thursday, January 12, 2017

Don’t give in to Discouragement

Unfortunately, we easily get distracted by failures in our lives, we easily discouraged. It’s easy to get distracted and forget what is most important. It's easy to drift away from matters most and slowly get off course. I’ve remembered how I, myself easily get discouraged during my school days, when I get lower grades or low scores from examinations or test, I feel discouraged and lose hope easily. I’ve never think, it is just only a step to keep me going on and study well to become top in school. I only see the result today, not the possible results in the future. I easily get weakens especially if I can’t get what I want. That’s only my thinking before not knowing what’s really important to me.


Sunday, January 8, 2017

Competition or Cooperation, which do you enjoy most?

Attitudes count on more than achievements. We have different role at different stages in our lives. The question is how you can make a difference? Is it by competing or by cooperating?

Competition:

Competition is very common and the word defines greatness in terms of power, possessions, fame, prestige and position. People nowadays build their identity through other people. Their perception in life "It’s me first" is the most common traits. Everyone wants to lead/compete. They are people who enthusiastically devoted to a particular thing called competition. By competition, we can tell ourselves that we can do everything and proves to everybody that we are competitive.